You Should Always Remember Your Good Memories In Marriage
The Importance of Flexibility in Marriage
First of all, one must know that marriage life is not an individual type of life. It is a life partnership established with other people, and this partnership should be taken into consideration while managing life.
People should be conscious about marriage before getting married, and both consciously establish and live it. An important part of the marital problems experienced in our country is focused on not knowing marriage life style in large scale and preparing for marriage.The common rule for each marriage is that the spouses must be from different sexes and different families and all these differences should be transformed into a mutual resilience. Let us not forget that people have individual identity. This individual identity must be stretched together with marriage and a relationship identity must be established with these mutual stretches, then it’s not a hard thing at all.
It is reflected in the marriages that the Turkish society is predominantly traditional and emotional society. Ego elevation is not one of the relations problems that we encounter very often when we do not step out, disregard, anticipate and omnipotent.In fact, 80% of our traditional truths do not conform to scientific truths. we are not aware of the fact that our young people who get married at the beginning of the mistakes that make marriage difficulties are not similar to marriage and they start to a life style that requires different sensitivities.If a person is always going to eat I should never try to be us. a common life, a living partner, and this lifestyle can only be resurrected with mutual pleasure, Our social traditions and habits about marriage do not overlap with the expectations of today's marriage. For this reason, young people think marriage should start by acquiring a marriage consciousness that will shed light on the family life of this day before work. If you want to manage something correctly, you need to be knowledgeable about that thing.
Young people want to see marriage in a way as "we can get out of the two of us." People want to be a priority with their woman with their wives. This is the first and the most important priority for the marriage. In order to pass the right kind of life, married people take their previous family belongings to the second plan, a new family has been set up with the marriage of the last year, the family descended to the family situation before it has grown. People should be aware that they are married not to their parents but to themselves as a family. Relations with the family should be maintained as a fidelity relationship. The second important priority of the way to become is unconditional ownership of spouses, including their originating families in out-of-home settings. It should be noted that marriage-related relationships are the main. The third important stop on the way is to abandon some habits about the single life and replace the habits of the marriage life. Instead of being a single person, the couple can stay together until late at night and share something. Another point is open communication. People should not speak cryptographically with their spouses. Everything should be shared as clearas it is. Another important aspect of our journey is complementary business partnership between spouses. There are no perfect or quadruple people. Furthermore, men and women have different abilities. These must be taken into consideration and it should be reflected with sincerity to be complementary to the marriage relationship.
Flexibility is important in life. Every married young man should know that his mother and father are the previous generation and the way they marry is the truth of that generation. Trying to do the same in your own marriage is a departure from marriage with current expectations, which will definitely create problems. it should be known that we are a country that is experiencing significant changes in its lifestyle and its priorities. Not everything is wrong, but everything is not right. For this reason, it is extremely important that the way of life is formed in accordance with current expectations and with the consent of the couple.
One important warning to married people is that they should not look at living in a way that is not surprising in their own righteousness. None of the other people is keen to live a life that will live through the truths of others and does not sign the book of marriage. There is a saying we are talking about in the "marriage school education program" it is unbelievable for me to remain. "It should not be forgotten that it is difficult for us to insist on self, since it is a life style focused on harmony.We must pay attention to the fact that harmony can not be realized without stepping in harmony. A couple's marriage success depends on the achievement of mutual success. It must not be forgotten that couples should try to understand each other correctly and try to maintain their lives, and that respect must come first before love, and that marriage relationship assures themIt’s a rule in human life that every relationship develops through mutual harmony. Of course, not everyone can adapt to everyone. For harmony, people should have some common patrons and minimum partnerships. In this sense, couples must know each other well before marriage, be honest with one another, In the process of marriage, it’s important to be avoided from all kinds of demolition and marriage should be realized without causing a heartache. If you are chosen by thinking about the steps and if it is thrown away, this will provide an important convenience for the healthy marriage.
It should be known that the problems of couples who come to marriage therapy due to ego height, lack of adaptive flexibility, reflection of the original family obsession to marriage, lack of communication, accumulation of marital problems due to inadequacy of problem solving skills, sexual incompatibilities, lack of sharing, incompatibilities and conflicts. In fact, all these are problems can be solved. The only thing that is needed is sincerity and mutual flexibility.
It’s a fact that we are a society that does not like loneliness. Family is a human and psychological need at the same time. Living a life is not as difficult as people think. For those who make marriage difficult, the lack of knowledge, the misconceptions and the habits are not as flexible as adaptability. When two fluids are merged together in a liquid container, people can achieve the same fluidity and softness to achieve a harmonious and fused couple. With love…
